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Late edit: Actually, the 14-year-old was a 12-year-old. The article had it wrong. This has since been corrected. Blackworm (talk) 06:28, 10 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

A dispute has arisen between editors on whether it violates WP:NPOV policy to describe the 14-year old Vili Fualaau, who was statutorily raped by Mary Kay Letourneau, as a "victim" in the context of his fathering of Letourneau's children while under the age of consent. The disputed edits are here and here. Blackworm (talk) 23:38, 25 May 2010 (UTC)[reply]

There are many aspects of the current lead that reflect a strong negative point of view. I do not believe that the current lead is neutral or fairly represents the content of the article in a neutral and encyclopedic (just the facts) tone. She was a teacher and the 14 year old was a student and they should be referred to as such. In my opinion it is POV to call him a 'victim' or a 'boy'. The subject's crime speaks for itself and does not need to be loaded with adjectives to create a more negative point of view.-- — Keithbob • Talk • 16:25, 31 May 2010 (UTC)[reply]

In general, it's non-neutral, but if something horrible happened to the victim, then "victim" is fair. In this case, it's ridiculous, as they ended up marrying, and he defended her all along the way. To continue labeling him as a "victim" makes wikipedia look stupid. Wikipedia looking stupid is not a good thing. It happens too often as it is. Let's try not to do it on purpose. ←Baseball Bugs ^{What's up, Doc?} carrots→ 17:29, 31 May 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Basically, you're saying that the crime of statutory rape isn't horrible, and thus we can't call him a victim, despite what the law she was convicted under says and what the sources say. That, to me, is what makes Wikipedia look stupid. Blackworm (talk) 02:44, 1 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Was it horrible in this particular case? What's the urgency for using an emotionally-charged label like "victim", for a guy who married his "victimizer"? ←Baseball Bugs ^{What's up, Doc?} carrots→ 02:54, 1 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

To put it another way, the article should stick with the facts, i.e. what she was charged with and convicted for. The only reason to label him a "victim" is to make a point of some kind. And to do it right, you need to say, "Her victim continued to have a relationship with her while she was in prison ... her victim asked the court to repeal the no-contact order ... her victim has now been married to her for five years ..." Now tell me why that wouldn't make wikipedia look silly. ←Baseball Bugs ^{What's up, Doc?} carrots→ 03:07, 1 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I didn't say it was urgent; the question posed here is whether it is urgent to remove the word victim from this article when describing the 13-14 year old Fualaau, despite what the law Letourneau was convicted under says, and what about 450 news articles on Google News say.[1] That is the question you and Keithbob are answering in the positive, without a convincing argument in my opinion. Your examples don't apply because the 13-14 year old referred to in the disputed sentence did not do those things, i.e., did not marry her, did not ask the court, etc. The adult did. Thus your examples are a straw man argument. If Wikipedia can't call the 13-14 victim of statutory rape a victim, which is the whole question being asked here, then yes, that makes Wikipedia look silly in my view. I note that the word "victim" is used without this urgent removal in articles like Paul Shanley, and no less than seven times in the Statutory rape article, which I'm sure has quite a bit more effort put into it and editors watching it than this one. To argue that it's "emotionally charged" is as ridiculous as arguing that we shouldn't use the word "rape" because the latter word is emotionally charged, despite how the crime is called everywhere else. Blackworm (talk) 03:52, 1 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

To answer your question about whether it's horrible in this particular case, I have to ask, what makes this particular case special? The whole point of statutory rape laws on the books is that children are impressionable and liable to be coerced by adults, especially adults in positions of power over them, in a way that they would not be with other children their age. The reason it's called statutory rape and not rape is precisely because the victim approves of the situation. In cases where the victim resists, it's called "rape" and is a greater crime with a greater sentence. I really thought that much was obvious. Blackworm (talk) 03:58, 1 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

It's perfectly clear that at no time has he ever considered himself a "victim". If you're simply quoting the wording of the law in general, maybe "victim" is OK. If you're calling him a "victim" specifically, that's silly. He was never a "victim". ←Baseball Bugs ^{What's up, Doc?} carrots→ 04:03, 1 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

No victim of statutory rape considers themselves a victim at the time. Despite that, they are recognized by the law, and by mainstream society as victims. You're claiming he was never a victim, and therefore the law is factually incorrect to call him a victim, and the 450 Google News articles are factually incorrect for calling him a victim. I call this claim of yours a completely fringe view, and Wikipedia gives little or no weight to fringe views.

The other clearly fringe view above is from Keithbob, namely that it's POV to call a 13-14 year old male a "boy." Utter nonsense is being used to defend this inappropriate removal. Blackworm (talk) 04:08, 1 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

There is no basis for claiming that no underage victim ever considers him/herself a victim at the time. Where the verbiage of the law is being cited, "victim" is valid if it's in the law as written. Labelling this guy specifically a victim is POV-pushing. "Boy" and "lover" are not appropriate either, as they are also terms that are trying to prove a point. ←Baseball Bugs ^{What's up, Doc?} carrots→ 04:15, 1 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Read the above again: The reason it's called statutory rape and not rape is precisely because the victim approves of the situation. Blackworm (talk) 04:18, 1 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

No. As noted in Statutory rape, the underage person is not legally capable of giving consent. That does not imply either approval or disapproval. As we know from the priest thing, adults sometimes use their authority to have their way with kids of various ages. Many of the kids know immediately that something's wrong, and hate what's happened, but are shamed into not reporting it. Compliance does not imply approval. ←Baseball Bugs ^{What's up, Doc?} carrots→ 04:24, 1 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Compliance may not imply approval, but the issue is whether consent does. Consent does imply approval, contrary to your implied claim. See the dictionary definition of "consent:" [2] Compliance is something else, it can be given under duress and without consent; and your conflation of the two terms is problematic. As an example, read the law of Letourneau's state regarding the definition of consent: "Consent" means that at the time of the act of sexual intercourse or sexual contact there are actual words or conduct indicating freely given agreement to have sexual intercourse or sexual contact.[3] That doesn't apply to your example, and thus in that case, the victim is a victim of rape, sexual assault, or child molestation, not merely statutory rape. As the statutory rape article says, "most jurisdictions have separate provisions for child molestation or forcible rape which can be applied to juveniles..." and also "The term statutory rape generally refers to sex between an adult and a sexually mature minor past the age of puberty. Sexual relations with a prepubescent child, generically called "child molestation," is typically treated as a more serious crime." Blackworm (talk) 04:41, 1 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

The underage are not competent to give consent, which is the whole point of these laws. The particular age level defines the seriousness of the crime for reasons that should be fairly obvious. Giving in to an authority figure does not imply consent, it merely implies compliance. ←Baseball Bugs ^{What's up, Doc?} carrots→ 10:15, 1 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Exactly, but you've dodged the point; statutory rape implies that consent is there, it's just not legally recognized. So my point stands: all victims of statutory rape (who aren't victims of something worse) approve of the statutory rape. Thus, that a victim of statutory rape doesn't view themselves as a victim isn't a special case, it's the general case. It's not enough for other articles, mainstream sources, and the law to stop referring to them as "victims," and therefore it's against Wikipedia policy for us to impose your fringe POV in this matter by removing the word "victim" merely because you personally disagree with all those sources' characterization in this instance. Blackworm (talk) 16:57, 1 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I think it is fairly obvious that "victim" has POV connotations, but it hadn't occurred to me that "boy" might be perceived as POV. What term would you suggest instead? Jakew (talk) 10:04, 1 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Since his name is well-known, use his last name in place of "the boy". ←Baseball Bugs ^{What's up, Doc?} carrots→ 10:15, 1 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I'm glad all three others here agree that the word "boy" used in Wikipedia to describe a 13-14 year old male is non-neutral enough to prevent its use. That view is so obviously nonsensical and fringe that it only reinforces my position. Blackworm (talk) 16:57, 1 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I don't actually agree that it's non-neutral, but I'm quite happy to find use an alternative if that helps to avoid perceived connotations. Jakew (talk) 17:58, 1 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

But your position is inconsistent; for example you vehemently resist any alternative to the term "uncircumcised" in all circumcision-related articles, despite editors pointing out its documented pejorative meaning ("heathen") and its negative connotations. That you accept the removal of the term "boy" as non-neutral is the key point here. Blackworm (talk) 18:34, 1 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I'm not prepared to debate the content of circumcision-related articles here. This talk page — and this RfC — is about this article. Jakew (talk) 19:30, 1 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

That you accept the removal of the term "boy" to describe a 13-14 year old male as non-neutral POV is the key point here. Blackworm (talk) 19:53, 1 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

The way I see it, the underage object of the woman's affections is clearly, by law, no matter how he might feel about it, a victim. Ceteris paribus (a cool phrase I just learned from another Wikipedian), the word "victim" is appropriate. However, as is clear from this discussion, it is an emotionally charged word. Its use is valid, but inflammatory to at least some people. I find it distracting and disturbing in this context, precisely because it raises the issues discussed above, and I would find the article more informative (via being less distracting) if the victim's name were used, rather than the legally valid but loaded label.

Same goes for the use of the word "boy." Even the law has trouble sorting out what's a boy and what's a man, when a teenager has done something nefarious, for instance; the dilemma reflects our society's confusion about how much autonomy and responsibility to attribute to youngish males in sticky situations. Ergo, it's a complicated word, when applied to a teenaged male who is a victim or a perpetrator of a major offense.

I think this is one of those cases where the solution is not in what is infallibly correct, but in what is most helpful. I think referring to the victim by his name would not stir controversy, except from those who wish to press the point of his being a victim. Therefore, I think he should be referred to by name, wherever possible, and not by the words "victim" and "boy," despite their validity. --Everything Else Is Taken (talk) 13:59, 6 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Best to use neutral and encyclopedic terms like student and teacher.-- — Keithbob • Talk • 22:01, 6 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I tend to agree that in this particular case the using the names of the involved parties is preferable to using words that have a deeper meaning attached to them. I understand that some may feel this is not the strictest interpretation of WP policy, but in some specific cases policy can be safely bent or even ignored for the greater good of the article. Cheers, Colincbn (talk) 01:48, 8 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I am in favor of Keithbob's suggestion of "student" and "teacher," for, as he pointed out, their neutrality; you can't use names every time. I'd have proposed those words, if I'd thought of it. --Everything Else Is Taken (talk) 13:59, 8 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Given that so many people here are implicitly invoking WP:IAR, I suppose this is a case where Wikipedia policy gets thrown out the window simply because several editors feel like it. Fine, so noted. I've always said true WP:CONSENSUS just means "the POV of editors" anyway. Blackworm (talk) 01:30, 9 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I can't speak for anyone else, but I don't see why IAR is applicable. No rule that I know of requires us to describe him as a "victim". As I understood it, your argument was that we could describe him as such without violating policy. Now you seem to be making a stronger argument: that we must. What policy is violated, in your opinion, by describing him as a "student"? Jakew (talk) 09:59, 9 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I also don't see how WP:IAR applies. In my opinion we are following one of Wiki major policies ie WP:BLP which states: "Material about living persons must be written with the greatest care and attention to verifiability, neutrality, and avoiding original research.". The word "victim" is a courtroom/police term. It is appropriate in those settings. In an encyclopedia we use more neutral terms. If you look at the news sources for this Wiki article, the word victim is not used. Instead the student is referred to by his last name. There are many adjectives we could use to refer to him in the lead ie. boy, victim, student, son, child, teen, young man, lover, future husband or father to be. But this is an encyclopedia so we must use simple, neutral and professional language, especially in the lead and especially on a BLP.-- — Keithbob • Talk • 14:56, 9 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Your repeated assertions that "victim" to describe the victim of a crime is non-neutral POV does not stand up to reason, especially since it is freely used elsewhere in this encyclopedia, as well as in the sources we reference in this article. Removing it on that basis is a perversion of WP:NPOV policy, and is in fact non-neutral in itself since it gives undue weight to a fringe view (i.e. that the victim is not really a victim). That is the violation of policy here, and that is why one can only invoke WP:IAR to justify it. Blackworm (talk) 04:45, 10 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I don't see how using the victim's name creates POV. We describe the crime and use a neutral word (his name) to refer to the victim/boy/lover/child who is now her adult husband. The subject of the article is Mary Kay. It's a BLP, not a crime journal.-- — Keithbob • Talk • 19:00, 11 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Describing him as a victim is accurate and appropriate to the fact that this is an article about criminal case. The article also includes his own statements about not considering him a victim. I don't see where there is a violation. I also changed one heading in the article from "Sex Offender" to "Trial and Conviction" so as to be more neutral. Elmmapleoakpine (talk) 01:20, 16 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Whether or not he ended up marrying his teacher when he became an adult is irrelevent to the fact that when he was a 14 year-old minor he was legally incapable of consenting to a sexual relationship with an adult, much less his teacher. Without question, the 14 year-old was a "victim". By law in fact. I fail to see any question here other than the fact that some seem to believe that if a young boy is seduced by an attractive adult woman that somehow this is a "good" thing. There is a reason the law is on the books folks. Rapier (talk) 22:00, 17 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Personally I have no opinion about the subject of whether it is good or bad, and I find that remark less than civil. Legally speaking, I agree that he is a victim. But the law isn't the only valid perspective, and the important point is that he is not a victim from every point of view. There exist viewpoints (including, presumably, his own, as well as Letourneau's) in which he's not a victim. Jakew (talk) 22:05, 17 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Thank you for proving my point. There exist viewpoints (which are POV) in which he is not a victim. He was a kid. She was an adult. It was illegal. He's a victim. Any other way of presenting this is by definition a point of view. Your personal opinion of whether or not something is "good" or "bad" is not the issue, though if you actually have no opinion on whether or not 14 year-olds should be having sexual relations with adults then I really don't care whether or not you find my remark "civil" or not. Rapier (talk) 22:19, 17 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Are you seriously suggesting that the position that he is a victim is not a point of view? Of course it is. It's a POV just as the position that he isn't a victim is a point of view. To claim otherwise is absurd. The purpose of NPOV writing is to document points of view without endorsing them. That is, we could say (hypothetically) that the judge described him as a victim, but we should not use such language ourselves.

I remind you that policy applies whether or not you personally care about civility. Jakew (talk) 22:23, 17 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I'm seriously stating that according to United States and Washington state criminal code, any 14 year-old that has sex with an adult is by definition a victim of a crime. Nobody else's opinion can change that documented fact, and therefore it does not violate Wikipedia's policy of neutrality to refer to the individual in question in that manner. Is it required that he be referred to that way? Of course not, but that wasn't the original question. Does it violate WP:NPOV to refer to him as a "victim"? No. Rapier (talk) 18:57, 18 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

In the eyes of the law, yes, he is a victim, and if this were a courtroom there would be no argument. But this is not a courtroom and other viewpoints are no more or less valid than a legal perspective. Referring to him as a "victim" endorses one point of view at the expense of others, thus violating NPOV. Jakew (talk) 19:54, 18 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Bring sources stating that he is not a victim; i.e. stating that it is non-neutral to describe him as such. I will even accept that your and Baseball Bugs' view on isn't complete fringe if you produce sources stating that victims of statutory rape aren't really victims, or shouldn't be called victims, or anything along those lines. Until then, your edit replacing "victim" with "boy" (and later, "student") does not have consensus. Blackworm (talk) 02:17, 30 July 2010 (UTC)[reply]

As there seems to be no consensus, I have posted regarding this issue on the NPOV noticeboard diff. Blackworm (talk) 04:49, 10 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I am late to the party here, but my opinion is as follows: (1) The word "victim" is incontestably applicable from a purely descriptive standpoint. (2) It is true that in some circumstances, the word "victim" may carry emotional overtones that are undesirable. (3) It is not the case that any use of the term "victim" is by definition non-neutral.

For purely stylistic reasons, it is never going to be appropriate to search-and-replace every use of the term "victim" with "boy" (or vice-versa). Rather, each usage should be evaluated on a case-by-case basis. Regarding Baseball Bugs' point that the word "victim" doesn't make sense when you're talking about him later marrying her, that's perfectly fine: one can use the term "victim" (for example) when talking about their contact at the time the crimes were committed, and then shift terms later when discussing their later life. One size does not fit all. Nandesuka (talk) 13:08, 10 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

WP:LEAD says: "The lead should be able to stand alone as a concise overview of the article. It should define the topic, establish context, explain why the subject is interesting or notable, and summarize the most important points—including any notable controversies."

• Current Lead: Mary Kay Letourneau (born Mary Katherine Schmitz; January 30, 1962), is an American former schoolteacher convicted in 1997 of the statutory rape of one of her students, a 13-year old boy, with whom the then-married mother of four had a longtime extramarital affair during the boy's teenage years.[2] She gave birth to two children by the boy, Vili Fualaau. The two married in 2005, after he reached adulthood and she had spent several years in prison and divorced her first husband.[3] Her notoriety has turned her into a touchstone cultural reference and has spawned a number of television specials about her. She is also the daughter of a former prominent conservative political figure, John G. Schmitz, whose political career effectively ended due to his own teacher-student sex scandal.

• Revised Lead: Mary Kay Letourneau (born Mary Katherine Schmitz; January 30, 1962), is an American sex offender, former schoolteacher and daughter of congressman, John G. Schmitz. In 1997 Letourneau was convicted of the child rape of 12 year old student, Vili Fualaau. Letourneau served two prison terms for her crime and gave birth to two of Fualaau's children while incarcerated. After her release from prison, Letourneau and Fualaau married in 2005. -- — Keithbob • Talk • 15:12, 9 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Looks good to me. Jakew (talk) 17:10, 9 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

We could add to the last sentence that she became Mary Kay Fualaau when she got married. Cheers!-- — Keithbob • Talk • 18:55, 9 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

"An American sex offender"? Still trying to prove some point, it seems. The original version covers it sufficiently. No need to drive a nail in with a sledgehammer. ←Baseball Bugs ^{What's up, Doc?} carrots→ 21:29, 9 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

On reflection, I agree. There's no need to say "sex offender" — the following sentence makes that clear enough. Jakew (talk) 21:59, 9 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I have no problem removing "sex offender" from my proposed lead. Any other suggestions? If not, I'll go ahead and make the changes per consensus here on this talk page.-- — Keithbob • Talk • 18:43, 11 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

She's only notable because she's a sex offender. Remove it and the first sentence makes no sense; the reader is led to believe she is notable as the daughter of the congressman. "The article should begin with a declarative sentence, answering two questions for the nonspecialist reader: 'What (or who) is the subject?' and 'Why is this subject notable?'" WP:LEAD. And it was not just a student, it was her 12 year old "student" (since you have all decided to violate WP:V and WP:NPOV by de-emphasizing his victimhood, contrary to sources). That he was her student is quite relevant, especially since child rape laws often emphasize that a position of authority over the victim is particularly reprehensible. Blackworm (talk) 05:14, 16 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I think you've struck on the crux of the issue here. I was aiming for it, but I missed in my argument with Jake, above. The only reason this woman has an article on Wikipedia is Wikipedia:Notability (criminal acts). That being the case, the article needs to follow that blueprint regardless of anybody else's "point of view". Letourneau = criminal, student = victim. Rapier (talk) 18:21, 21 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

This is a biography and being a criminal doesn't negate all other aspects of the person's life. WP:LEAD says that the lead should ID the subject, it's notability and summarize the main points of the article. I think that is pretty well accomplished in the current lead. The current lead also clearly states, in the second sentence that she was "convicted of the child rape of a 12 yr old student". So nothing is being played down or hidden. Also keep in mind that being the daughter of a presidential candidate is notable and she is widely known, not only for the crime but for the many subsequent events including her trial, her pregnancies, her marriage to the student, their wedding and their Hot For Teacher club dates etc. So it's not just about the one act of rape. It's her entire life since her arrest that is widely notable. That said, my original text above called her an American sex offender, but two editors objected and so I changed it since the consensus at that time was two to one. At present I'm neutral on that point and am OK having the words 'sex offender' either in or out of the lead.-- — Keithbob • Talk • 21:48, 22 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

This is a biography, yes, but being related to a notable individual does not make one notable according to Wiki guidelines. Her activities after her conviction are only notable because of her conviction. Therefore I have to Disagree with the current version. I can, however, Agree with your original edit where she is discribed as a sex offender. Rapier (talk) 18:51, 23 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Someone finally addressed this problem.[4] I support the spirit of that edit, correcting (perhaps overcorrecting) a clear non-neutral bias. But I think it can be phrased better. Any suggestions? Blackworm (talk) 05:00, 3 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I removed the following unsupported text from the lead and body of the article per WP:BLP. The text may be place back in the article if reliable sources are found.

• She now lives in Normandy Park Washington and works at the All-Star sports bar in Des Moines Washington.-- — Keithbob • Talk • 19:28, 7 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

And this text also needs citations to justify being in the article:

• Her husband became aware of the situation in February 1997, after discovering letters sent between his wife and her student; her husband shared this knowledge with family members.His brother then reported the relationship to local child protection services.(These sentences have been tagged since Jan 2009)

And these cultural references also need citations, please keep in mind that text should not be copied word from word from other sources and that the IMDB web site is user edited and therefore not considered to be a reliable source by Wikipedia.

• All-American Girl: The Mary Kay Letourneau Story, a 2000 TV movie starring Penelope Ann Miller in the title role
• Mary Kay Latourneau: Forbidden Desire - a Court TV documentary
• "Mary Kay Letourneau: The E! True Hollywood Story" - an E! THS episode
• "Mary Kay Letourneau: Out of Bounds" - an A&E Biography episode
• Singer/songwriter Jill Sobule wrote a song about Letourneau, "Mary Kay", appearing on her album Pink Pearl.
• On the seventh episode of the second season of 30 Rock Liz Lemon compares her relationship with a 20 year old Jaime to Mary Kay Letourneau and Vili Fualaau.
• Mary Kay Letourneau was referenced by Lorelai in the twentieth episode of the first season of Gilmore Girls when she and Rory are playing a game they made up, called "One, Two, Three."
• In a season four episode of Without a Trace, Letourneau is referenced by Special Agent Vivian Johnson, who is investigating the disappearance of a school teacher, suspected of having an inappropriate relationship with a student.
• In the Gossip Girl episode, "Carrnal Knowledge", Blair refers to Mary Kay Letourneau as she sends a text message to Gossip Girl on seeing Dan Humphrey and a teacher, starting a rumor that they're having an affair.
• In the Nip/Tuck episode "Ricky Wells," an 18-year-old boy asks for surgery to make him look older. He recently married his second grade teacher, convicted sex offender "Kerri May." She was arrested for statutory rape, released on good behavior, then caught in a car having sex with him again and sent back to prison for the full term. After released, the no-contact ban was lifted and they were married a week later.
• Mary Kay Letourneau is spoofed in a season ten episode of South Park. Ike Broflovski begins a relationship with his kindergarten teacher, Ms. Stephenson. As with the case of Mary Kay Letourneau, the student's brother goes to the authorities.-- — Keithbob • Talk • 19:39, 7 June 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I think it makes more logical sense (to me) if the section on the 'Relationship' comes before the 'Trial & Conviction'—this would require some re-writing to make the text flow a little better, but I think it would add to the overall quality of the article. Thoughts? Assembled (talk) 23:32, 18 July 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Would it mesh chronologically? How about if we broke the 'Relationship" section up and merged it with the rest of the article placing each item in Chronological order? Is that doable?-- — Keithbob • Talk • 21:13, 30 July 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I'm thinking we might want to keep 'Relationship' as its own section since that seems to be something of particular significance in this bio. I would think that it makes more chronological sense if 'Relationship' came before 'Trial' since the relationship had to begin prior to the trial/conviction. I suppose the problem is that there is also post-relationship info in the 'Relationship' section... What do you think about breaking it up, similar to what you suggested, except having a Relationship section (before Trial) and Second Marriage section (after Trial)? We can play with the names of the sections... What are your thoughts? Assembled (talk) 08:30, 2 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Yes, I think it would be a step in the right direction of more chronology in the article. Why don't you go ahead?-- — Keithbob • Talk • 15:23, 2 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I oppose those steps. Biographies are not timelines. Interleaving the story of their relationship and the criminal case seems a matter for a TV miniseries, not Wikipedia. Blackworm (talk) 05:50, 3 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I'm confused by your comment: "Biographies are not timelines". Of course they are. They are the story of a person's life as it progresses in time. So chronology is a natural part of the article.-- — Keithbob • Talk • 15:47, 5 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Based on looking at a few biographical articles here, I'll concede that biographies have a strong chronological component, if not a strict timeline format. I don't mind if "early life" comes first, but I think "Relationship" is a somewhat non-neutral section title once it starts discussing her crime. If the section ended there, then a new section began (perhaps entitled "Crime" or "Child rape"), and continued until the time of the trial (i.e. the stuff that happened with Fualauu after the trial would be moved to a later section), that would correct the problem. So yes, let's do it chronologically, but let's be neutral in the process; and that would also allow the reader to read sooner about what made Letourneau notable. Blackworm (talk) 01:19, 6 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Re: this edit and my partial reversion, please see the law of Letourneau's state she was presumably found guilty under,[5] as well as the sources cited for the statement which clearly say "child rape." Blackworm (talk) 09:18, 4 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

There are 1,440 sources using the exact phrase "child rape" in articles discussing Letourneau, compared with 2,370 sources using the phrase "statutory rape". I'm restoring the latter. Jakew (talk) 09:31, 4 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

No. Google is not Wikipedia. Do not restore your disputed change. Blackworm (talk) 09:33, 4 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I have again reverted your change. Random sources on the web may be discussing statutory rape cases and may be discussing Letourneau as a particularly reprehensible example, it's clear those focussing on Letourneau rather than statutory rape in general are more likely going to use the phrase "child rape." In light of the official name of the offense in the state it was committed in ("what was she convicted of?"), and in light of the already-referenced sources confirming that the phrase "child rape" is what the offense Letourneau was convicted of is called, the numbers you present (which are only slightly weighted in your favour) providing one source of answers on some other only indirectly related question ("how many web pages talk about use the exact phrases "statutory rape" and Mary Kay Letourneau", and how many talk about child rape use the exact phrase "child rape" instead) are seemingly rendered meaningless. Blackworm (talk) 09:44, 4 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

It is clear that the phrase "child rape" is used less frequently in this context than "statutory rape". And since "child rape" is a more emotive term, I suggest that we avoid it in favour of "statutory rape", which describes a legal situation. Jakew (talk) 10:03, 4 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I support the less emotive stat rape and imo it is actually more reflective of what happened. Although I will say, that there are differences of legality and expression between the UK and USA around these issues.Off2riorob (talk) 10:06, 4 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

You are asserting that when discussing her conviction, "what happened" is not what offense she was convicted under, but something else. I don't accept that. We can be neutral about it by describing exactly what child rape means according to the law of the state she was convicted in. Blackworm (talk) 09:36, 5 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Jakew, no, it is not clear that it is used less frequently in the context of discussing Letourneau's conviction. "Child rape" is a more emotive term, but that is not a valid reason to replace it a term that is less precise. Had the victim been 17, and not 12, it still would have been "statutory rape" (actually "Sexual misconduct with a minor in the second degree"[6]) but not "child rape," for example. "Child rape" is also clearly a "legal situation" as my original link to the actual law shows. Blackworm (talk) 09:36, 5 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Why are you editwarring your change into this article, Jakew? Blackworm (talk) 09:40, 5 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

"Statutory. (of an offence) a. recognized by statute b. subject to a punishment or penalty prescribed by statute"[7] Hence, statutory rape is an act that is, according to statute, rape. The trouble is that the phrase "child rape" brings to mind an adult forcing themselves on a protesting young child. That's why it is so emotive. But when an older child participates willingly (as may be presumed to be the case here, based on later events — though he can't legally consent, of course), the phrase "child rape" creates an impression that could be misleading. Statutory rape is hence a much more descriptive term. Jakew (talk) 10:04, 5 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Well-stated. ←Baseball Bugs ^{What's up, Doc?} carrots→ 10:28, 5 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Jakew: Take it up with the State of Washington if you think they are non-neutral or if you don't feel the names of their offenses evoke the proper emotions. The sources we cite are accurate for the statement. You have no basis for this change, other than to impose a term that is less accurate when one that is more accurate and readily available. The names of offenses are not obscene, they are not non-neutral, and they are not inappropriate for this article. If you feel that strongly about it, write a sentence later in the article that explains the difference between child rape (Letourneau's crime) and statutory rape in general. Further, what misleading impression could possibly be made when the age of the victim is clearly stated in the same sentence? Is it the emotive response to the word "child" that is misleading? Is the misleading part the suggestion that a 12-year-old is a child? And by the way, Jakew, the word "uncircumcised" "brings to mind" uncleanliness, yet you insist on its use over all other terms. The latter view is reliably sourced; where are you sources for your "emotive" arguments? Here, why don't we write "child rape (a form of statutory rape)" instead, that would make the "not protesting" part clear to the reader if indeed it makes that much difference to them for a 12-year-old, and would leave the statement as precise as it is now.

By he way, anyone accepting Jakew's somewhat WP:OR Google based argument should view an analogous (and also flawed, for the same reason) one: Searches for "Mary Kay Letourneau" statutory return 995 search results[8] while "Mary Kay Letourneau" rape returns 12,000 results[9]. Thus, clearly the statement should simply say Letourneau was convicted of rape, not statutory rape. Oh, and by the way, "Mary Kay Letourneau" child returns 95,000 results...[10] Blackworm (talk) 00:36, 6 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Also, to address your "statute" argument, which I believe is invalid: I claim that anything that is rape by statute is rape. Statutory rape is a form of rape, just like child rape according to the sources is a form of statutory rape. Rape means: 2 : unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of injury against the will usually of a female or with a person who is beneath a certain age or incapable of valid consent — compare sexual assault, statutory rape[11]Click 3Rape(noun). The state of Washington didn't seem to get it so wrong, so let's not blur it here, please. Blackworm (talk) 00:45, 6 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

The State of Washington isn't bound by NPOV, Blackworm. We are. There's a difference.

I don't think the word "child" is particularly misleading. As I explained, what's misleading is that "rape", without the "statutory" qualifier, connotes a violent act in which a person forces herself on an unwilling and (often) protesting victim. But what we're actually describing is sex with a person who cannot give legal consent. If we used the term "child rape" it would be unclear which meaning was meant (and no, mentioning his age doesn't resolve this ambiguity). Using the term "statutory rape" helps to reduce ambiguity.

I don't think it would be a little confusing to say that child rape is a form of statutory rape. The term "child rape" can refer to a form of statutory rape, but it can also refer to forced sex with an unwilling child (ie., what would be called rape regardless of the victim's age). Jakew (talk) 09:12, 6 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

That is not an objection to my compromise solution, "child rape (statutory)" which makes clear we are discussing the statutory form of child rape here. So I must ask, if it's not the word "child," precisely what is the problem with it? Blackworm (talk) 08:19, 7 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

As I explained (though I accidentally included the word "don't"): "I think it would be a little confusing to say that child rape is a form of statutory rape", which would be the implication of your suggestion "child rape (a form of statutory rape)", I think. Jakew (talk) 08:38, 7 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Please address the statements made; to do otherwise is incivil behaviour. I specifically ask above what issue you have with my current suggestion, which is not "child rape (a form of statutory rape)" but "child rape (statutory)," the latter not carrying any such confusion. Blackworm (talk) 10:37, 7 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

When you say "That is not an objection to my compromise solution...", I think it is fair to take that to mean what you had proposed at the time of my post, since the alternative would suggest that you expect me to comment on your later proposal before you had actually made it, which seems a little unreasonable. I therefore assumed that "child rape (statutory)" was intended as shorthand for "child rape (a form of statutory rape)", rather than a new proposal. If you had said "OK, what about...", your intentions would have been clearer. Regarding "child rape (statutory)", I think it's a lot better than "child rape", but it still seems more emotive than necessary. "statutory child rape" might be more acceptable. Jakew (talk) 11:56, 7 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Note Re: "you expect me to comment on your later proposal before you had actually made it, which seems a little unreasonable." My post making the later proposal is dated 08:19, 7 August 2010 (UTC) -- Jakew's post ignoring that proposal and repeating the same objection immediately follows it and is dated 08:38, 7 August 2010 (UTC). I invite Jakew to strike out the factually incorrect implication. Blackworm (talk) 02:39, 10 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Blackworm, your post dated 08:19, 7 August 2010 was in response to my post dated 09:12, 6 August 2010, and it (your post) began "That is not an objection to my compromise solution". By "that", you presumably mean the content of the post to which you were replying. Your words suggested that you expected me to state an objection to your "compromise solution". So since you acknowledge that your later proposal was dated 08:19, 7 August 2010, what compromise proposal existed at that time? Jakew (talk) 09:41, 10 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I do not acknowledge that, as it is provably false; my compromise proposal at the time was "child rape (statutory)", in my post of 21:48, 6 August 2010 (UTC), below. I can understand now that you hadn't read it yet, but please understand that there was nothing "unreasonable" about my presumption that you would take my words literally and verbatim. It was thus provably not a "[...] later proposal before you had actually made it, [...]," and I ask you again to please strike out that remark. In any case, I understand your confusion, but besides this confusion, do you have any remaining arguments? Blackworm (talk) 01:43, 12 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

If you read my above arguments, and the relevant timestamps, carefully, I think you'll see that I'm correct. Nevertheless, to be frank I'm long past the point of caring whether you see that or not, and I'm inclined to disengage from this extremely pointless discussion. Jakew (talk) 08:46, 12 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

I have clearly presented the requested proof, referencing comments with timestamps as asked, that your statements regarding my actions are misleading, and again ask that you strike them out in consequence. Above, I should probably have specified "My post again making the later proposal is dated 08:19, 7 August" instead of "My post making the later proposal is dated [...]." Perhaps that would have been less confusing, and I apologize for that; however my point still stands that I did not expect you to comment on a proposal before having made the proposal, as you state above. Blackworm (talk) 09:05, 12 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Why would "statutory child rape" be less emotive than "child rape (statutory)?" In any case, are you suggesting that "statutory child rape" is acceptable? I could abide by that. Blackworm (talk) 07:12, 8 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

My preference remains for "statutory rape", but I'm willing to agree to "statutory child rape" if it is acceptable to the other editors who've commented in this discussion. Jakew (talk) 08:32, 8 August 2010 (UTC) (Edited 08:35, 9 August 2010 (UTC))[reply]

Note here that Jakew has struck out the above because the other editors disagree with his feeling that it is a reasonable compromise. This is an example of groupthink that is unacceptable as a means to edit Wikipedia articles, in my opinion. What mechanism exists in Wikipedia to stop it? I am at a complete loss. Blackworm (talk) 03:35, 10 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

<sarcasm>Goodness, an editor adjusted his position as a result of arguments made by another editor. We can't have that, can we?</sarcasm> Jakew (talk) 09:41, 10 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Please cite the "arguments" made by another editor you are referring to, with diff links. The only post I saw was one below by an editor disagreeing with the compromise, with the statement that we must remove "child rape" because "most of the reliable sources that I have seen do not use the term." Can you confirm that that argument is the basis on which you reject the compromise, and that it is not the mere fact of someone continuing to disagree that you have rescinded your agreement on the inclusion of the compromise phrase (precisely as you said you would do in the struck out statement)? It seems thoroughly disingenuous to claim that the mere fact of anyone opposing this edit will cause you to rescind your support for it, then claim that their actual arguments convinced you to do so; especially when the argument brought has specifically been rejected in prior discussion, with sources and your silence on that specific argument indicates your consent with its rejection. Blackworm (talk) 08:56, 11 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

For crying out loud — now you want diff links to show why I changed my mind? [expletive] Okay, Here is the diff. (As an aside, "most of the reliable sources that I have seen do not use the term" appears in a post by Keithbob dated 19:04, 10 August 2010 (UTC). The edit in which I changed my mind was dated 08:35, 9 August 2010 (UTC), and had the edit summary "Off2riorob has a point". Either of these facts should really have been a clue that I didn't mean Keithbob's post. On another note, I would tend to agree that more sources use the term "statutory rape" than "child rape", as is evidenced by the Google searches I presented at the start of this discussion. Please do not interpret my silence to mean agreement with an argument; often it simply means that I cannot be bothered to continue a long, pointless and irritating debate.) Jakew (talk) 09:28, 11 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Yes, I want diffs because I intend to show you are behaving in a disruptive manner. You have made this easy: you are still forwarding the argument that more sources say "statutory rape" than "child rape" when I have already debunked that argument as misleading, incomplete WP:OR, proven trivially by the fact that you did not include the phrase "rape of a child" as equivalent to "child rape" in the Google searches you ineptly constructed and then misinterpreted, and from which you stated your dubious conclusions as fact. Blackworm (talk) 09:43, 11 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

It seems to me that including another, different phrase would invalidate the comparison. Consequently I compared the frequency of use of the exact term which you favoured with the frequency of use of the exact term which I favoured. Jakew (talk) 10:06, 11 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

So you're saying you firmly believe "child rape" and "rape of a child" have too differing a meaning to be considered as interchangeable for the purposes of assessing which terms the sources use to discuss this topic? Can you accept that a newspaper or author in a reliable journal might refer to a crime listed as "rape of a child" as "child rape," without interjecting any bias, opinion, or interpretation into the journal article as a result? Blackworm (talk) 01:22, 12 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

No, Blackworm, what I'm saying is that a) using the sum of frequencies of "similar" phrases will obviously skew the comparison, thus invalidating the results, and b) given that we're already comparing vaguely similar phrases, it seems too arbitrary to decide what is "similar" enough regard as interchangeable and what is not. Jakew (talk) 08:46, 12 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]

Your (a) is only true if one accepts your (b), which I flatly reject as an arbitrary decision to ignore a clear source of bias in your results. Blackworm (talk) 08:59, 12 August 2010 (UTC)[reply]