We formulate a Lagrangian (individual-based) model to investigate the spacing of individuals in a social aggregate (e.g., swarm, flock, school, or herd). Mutual interactions of swarm members have been expressed as the gradient of a potential function in previous theoretical studies. In this specific case, one can construct a Lyapunov function, whose minima correspond to stable stationary states of the system. The range of repulsion (r) and attraction (a) must satisfy r<a for cohesive groups (i.e., short range repulsion and long range attraction). We show quantitatively how repulsion must dominate attraction (Rr ^d+1 >cAa ^d+1 where R, A are magnitudes, c is a constant of order 1, and d is the space dimension) to avoid collapse of the group to a tight cluster. We also verify the existence of a well-spaced locally stable state, having a characteristic …